Why Preparing for Motherhood is about Turning Moments into Memories
Often, when people think of preparing for motherhood, they think about what they need to buy. A cot, a buggy, diapers, bottles, toys, cute little clothes… the list is endless.
But there are some things money can’t buy.
Whether you’re planning a pregnancy, already pregnant or a new mother, you may be feeling the complex emotions that having a baby can bring you. Of course, there’s joy, but coupled with that may also be stress, frustration, anxiety, doubt or fear. Postpartum emotions – the so-called ‘baby blues’ – can be especially overwhelming for many new mothers.
So, preparing for motherhood is in part about being ready to deal with these emotions and knowing that you aren’t alone. Finding strength in yourself and seeking a healthy balance can help to give you greater clarity and direction, not just in motherhood but in all aspects of life.
It’s also important to remember that no number of adorable onesies and teeny tiny pairs of shoes will replace the precious moments you share with your newborn. A big part of preparing for motherhood is about embracing the journey and documenting as many of its moments as possible, good and bad. Even if it might not seem so funny at the time, one day, you’ll want to look back and laugh at the day your baby smeared puréed peas all over the walls!
It all comes down to one fact: your little one won’t stay little for long. As a parent, I wish I’d documented more of the golden moments – first smile, first laugh, first steps, first words, first word, even the first toddler tantrum – as they happened. I wish I’d taken the time to embrace my emotions and the rollercoaster ride of being a new parent. I’ve forgotten so many moments, and now they are gone forever.
To avoid this happening to you, it’s a great idea to start an online blog. Not only will you get to relive your little one’s adventures every day or week, but when they get older, they will be able to enjoy reading it and looking at all the pictures too. Who knows, you may even end up being able to help other young parents with their questions on parenthood. You could even develop the blog into an educational platform as a small business later down the line!
In summary, preparing for motherhood is about turning moments into memories. Not counting ten tiny fingers and ten tiny toes, but embracing how you feel day to day, and finding creative ways to turn every single precious moment into a lifelong memory.
To find out more on how to do this, come and join me at my next workshop: Turn Moments into Memories: Preparing for Motherhood, and gain some pearls of wisdom from my two guest speakers.
Ange Dove, master copywriter, small business owner, mentor and mother of two teenagers, will be sharing everything you need to know about writing down the best bits of baby’s first year and beyond (and how to get people to read your blog once you’ve written it!).
Shamala Tan, author, spiritual entrepreneur, intuitive life coach and mother of a 12-year-old girl, will be holding a purposeful talk on gaining emotional balance for greater clarity, direction and purpose in motherhood and in life.
Turn Moments into Memories: Preparing for Motherhood workshop is open to everyone, including expecting, new and established parents, and will be held on 31 March 2018, 2pm to 5pm.
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Workshop limited to 9 pax.
Places available on a first booked basis.
For SGBC members – Use the coupon – “memories” to get $18 off your ticket.
Kenneth Choo is an entrepreneur, business consultant, and mother industrialist. He founded KC Creative Marketing in 2015, after having to work in the media marketing industry since 2004. He is very experienced in sales and marketing, especially in the parenting industry.
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